A wedding wishlist that isn’t locked to one store
Store registries push their own catalogue. A free wishlist lets you mix the good knives from one shop, the tent from another and a honeymoon-fund link, and guests reserve without creating yet another account.
- Items from any store, plus “experience” items you type by hand.
- Guests reserve or mark as bought in one tap. No registry login for grandparents.
- Quantity per item: six wine glasses can be reserved by six different guests.
- After the wedding date, see who gave what for your thank-you cards.
What goes on a wedding gift list besides the kitchen
The classic registry is plates, glasses and towels, and a modern one rarely stops there: tools for the flat you are moving into, a photography session, a case of the wine you served, a year of something you both use. Put them side by side in one list with real prices, because a guest choosing between a saucepan and “something nice” buys the saucepan every time, and the couple gets four of them.
Honeymoon fund, cash and “please, no gifts”
If what you actually want is the honeymoon, say it as an item: “Honeymoon fund” with a note that points at your own payment link, and guests mark it as gifted so others can see it is handled. The money never passes through us — we only hold the list. The same trick covers a joint big-ticket gift, or a line that politely says the presence is enough and the list is there only for people who insist.
Tips from people who did it
Price spread matters more here
Wedding guests span budgets widely. Aim for a third of the list at modest prices so every guest finds something without stretching.
Group gifts
For the big item, write in the note how guests can chip in: a shared payment link, or “ask Anna, she is coordinating”. We never hold money, which keeps it simple and safe.
Put the link on the invite
Copy the short link onto the invitation or the wedding website. It stays the same even when you edit the list.
Why this one
Instead of a sealed envelope
A registry says what the home actually needs. Guests who want to give money can still do that — the list just stops the guessing for everyone else.
Big items split between guests
A sofa or a honeymoon night sits on the list as one item, with a note on how to chip in. We never touch the money.
Thank-you notes write themselves
After the date the list shows who gave what, so the hardest part of the week after the wedding takes twenty minutes.
Built for the giver
Price filter, “bought elsewhere” button, one-tap reserve. The person spending money is treated as a first-class user.
Pairs with Secret Santa
Paste your wishlist link into a Secret Santa profile and your gifter sees pictures and prices instead of a vague text.
Free, no limits
Unlimited lists, unlimited items, unlimited guests. Some store links earn us an affiliate commission; your price never changes.
A wishlist in Telegram
Send the bot a link from any shop and it becomes a wish with a photo and a price. Share the list — friends reserve gifts quietly, and you never see who took what.
- Paste a link — the item lands in the list
- Any store: Amazon, Etsy, IKEA…
- Reservations stay a surprise for you
No Telegram? The site does all of it too, without signing up — start here and move it into the bot with one tap whenever you like.
Secret Gift
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➕ Add a wish
Send a link from any shop — or just write what you want.
Tap a button — this is how the bot answers
Questions
Is this a wedding registry?
It works like one, minus the store lock-in and fees: you list gifts from anywhere, guests reserve, purchases happen directly at the shops. We never handle payments.
Can guests see who else reserved what?
No. Guests see only whether an item is still available. You, the couple, see nothing until the day after the wedding, when the list reveals who gave what.
How do cash or honeymoon funds work?
Add an item like “Honeymoon fund” with a note pointing to your own payment link. Guests mark it as gifted so others know. Money never passes through secret.gift.
Is it really free?
Yes. Unlimited items, unlimited guests, no premium tier for the basics. Some store links earn us a small affiliate commission at no cost to you.
Other occasions
Organizing a gift exchange?
Draw names for Secret Santa in two minutes — free, no email — and paste your wishlist link into your profile.