Secret Santa

Secret Santa budget calculator

$30Typical limit per gift

Pick a spending limit the whole group can live with. The ranges come from the limits real groups set for their own exchanges.

Spending limit per person

People in the group
6
Each person spends up to$30
The whole group spends$180

Half of the groups that name a dollar limit on secret.gift set it between $20 and $50. The one in the middle is $30.

Start a draw with a $30 limit

What $30 buys

  • An insulated mug or bottle
  • A small board game
  • A gourmet food box
  • A book from their exact niche
More ideas at this price

Setting a limit nobody resents

  • Set it for the person with the tightest month, not for the average. Nobody enjoys a game they had to stretch for.
  • Say if it is a ceiling or a target. "Up to $30" and "around $30" lead to very different gifts on the same table.
  • Round numbers work. $20, $30 and $50 are what groups actually choose, and they are easy to shop for.
  • Bigger group, same limit. The limit is per gift, so twenty people do not need a smaller number than six.
  • Add wishes. A limit tells people how much, a wish or two tells them what.

Where the numbers come from

No averages pulled out of thin air: each figure in the calculator comes from a named survey or from our own anonymised data.

  • National Retail Federation / Prosper Insights & Analytics, 2025 — Holiday survey of 8,247 US adults, October 2025: $890.49 planned per person in total, $627.93 of it on gifts for family and friends.
  • secret.gift, 2026 — The spending limits that gift exchange groups set on secret.gift since October 2025, anonymised: the middle value and the range half of the groups fall into.

Gift budget questions

How much should you spend on Secret Santa?

Most groups land between $20 and $50. Among exchanges that name a dollar limit on secret.gift, the middle one is $30. In the UK the usual office gift is cheaper: 48% of office workers spend £5 to £10 (Instantprint, 2024).

Is the Secret Santa limit a maximum or an exact amount?

By default a maximum: spend up to the limit, not a cent more. If your group wants gifts of equal value, say "around" and give a range, for example $25 to $30. Put it in the group description so everyone reads the same rule.

What is a good Secret Santa budget for the office?

One that the newest hire can afford without thinking about it. $20 to $30 covers a thoughtful gift and keeps the game light. See how to run Secret Santa at work for the rest of the rules.

What can you buy for $20 or $30?

More than it seems: good coffee, a desk plant, a card game, a paperback and a chocolate bar. We keep a list of Secret Santa gift ideas by budget sorted by price.

What if someone cannot afford the limit?

Lower it for everyone before the draw, quietly. A smaller limit costs the group nothing, and a public exception costs one person a lot. After the draw, a handmade or shared gift within the spirit of the game is fine.